How to Look Like a Male Fitness Model and Attract Women

The Male Fitness Model… More Attractive To Women Than The Bodybuilder Look

Bodybuilders are such a touchy bunch. There are probably a couple of guys experiencing “roid rage” right now! I know that most bulky guys look at male fitness models and think that they are wimpy. You see many bodybuilders are under the impression that everyone wants to be as big and strong as them. They see a guy who is lifting lighter weights and doing cardio as someone who isn’t as successful in the gym as them. They mistakenly believe that bigger muscles equates to being more attractive to women. Nothing could be further from the truth!

Male Fitness Models Are Built Like Hollywood Sex Symbols

How many male sex symbols are huge and buff? Do you think any of the current Hollywood sex symbols can bench press over 400 pounds? What about stars like Brad Pitt, Matthew McConaughey, Jamie Fox, Will Smith, Jared Leto, Daniel Craig (the new James Bond), etc. Women are attracted to men with average builds, but with great muscle tone. How many men who star in Soap Operas are huge and buff? The answer is that with very rare exceptions, it pays to have a lean muscle build… not a bulky bodybuilder type look.

Male Fitness Models Have To Workout Harder Than Bodybuilders

Lifting weights and bulking up is MUCH easier than burning body fat and getting lean. I don’t care how big you are… you know it’s true! To get big, you just lift with a high volume of lifts and progressively increase the weight over time. You don’t have to be on a strict diet and you don’t have to hit cardio hard. To get lean, you have to lift to maintain your muscle mass, you have to watch what you eat, and you have to hit cardio like a maniac. The reason you see very few guys in the gym with “six pack abs” is that getting lean is tough work.

A Simple Approach to Leaning Down if You Are Bulky

Getting that lean look is actually simple, but not easy. If you are kind of bulky right now and need to lean down you just need to do a few things:

1) Perform Intense Cardio At Least 4-5 Times Per Week for 30-45 Minutes

2) Multiply Your Body Weight by 12. The Number You Get Will Be The Total Maximum Amount Of Calories You Are Allowed To Eat Each Day… Aim for Less If Possible

3) Quit Obsessing Over Strength

4) Quit Obsessing Over Protein Consumption

5) When In Doubt, Cut Back on Lifting And Increase Cardio

6) You Will See “Six Pack Abs” When You Get Lean Enough. Don’t Go Overboard With Crunches and Ab Movements. Cardio is Your Ticket To a Six Pack.

Quit Trying To Impress Guys In The Gym… The Goal Is To Impress Women

When you are hitting cardio hard and limiting your calories, you won’t get as big of a pump as you …

Do Luxury Cars Really Attract And Impress Women?

There seems to be a general feeling that women are generally impressed by guys who drive expensive cars. Some guys even seem to believe that they have a better chance of scoring a date if they drive an exotic or expensive car.

Personally, I have NEVER thought to myself “Wow, that guy driving the 7-series must be loaded! Let me go get some of that!” The feelings I generally get when seeing a guy in a super expensive car such as a Lamborghini or Bentley run anywhere from apathy to envy to motivation. Let me explain further…

Apathy – Most of the time I could care less if a guy drives a $200,000 car. When I DO LOOK, it’s to check out the car and not the guy. Personally, I find no glory in dating a guy driving an expensive car. I am extremely ambitious I would rather work hard enough in order to BUY a $200,000 car myself. What do you gain from sitting in the passenger seat of an expensive car? Absolutely nothing. I would rather be the owner of the car; that’s where the real glory lies. Also, it makes no difference to me if another person can afford an expensive car; it doesn’t affect me personally. I have no interest in being with someone for their wealth; I’d rather have my own wealth.

Envy – Seeing someone in a really nice car will sometimes bring out the green eyed monster in me. It can make me a just a bit sad seeing how someone else has so much while I don’t… However, that’s not a very healthy way of thinking because there will always be someone richer and wealthier… or prettier… or skinnier… or more successful… That’s just the way of the world.

Motivation – Seeing someone in an expensive car like a Bentley mostly serves as motivation and inspiration. It reminds me of what is achievable in life if you work hard and never give up. If anything, it makes me want to work harder and not slack off so that one day I may achieve that level of wealth and success.

With all this talk about luxury cars, it’s still important to keep in mind that it’s important to live within your means. Dealerships such as GMC Dealer Columbus and Buick Dealer Columbus sell cars that are affordable and reliable. After all; it’s not very impressive to drive an exotic car while living in a tiny apartment. Not to mention the fact that a car is a depreciating liability and not an asset.

In conclusion, there are many women out there who are impressed by the type of cars guys drive and are easily impressed by them. However, to me that is “broke thinking”. Why be content sitting in the passenger seat when you can be the driver and have the wealth and power for yourself? An exorbitantly expensive car doesn’t make a guy more attractive to me; it only serves to make me …

One of The Best Ways to Attract Women and Have Them Pursue You

“If she thinks you want her too much, you’re going to lose your leverage.” – Carlos Xuma

Movies and friends have led us to believe that if you’re interested in a girl, you have to DESPERATELY pursue her, take her out to expensive dinners, buy her things, and spend tons of money on her to impress her and get her interested in you.

Sure, that might work on a gold digger who just wants your money.

But that’s not how to go about attracting the ‘perfect’ girl to you.

Why?

Because, not only do you come across as needy and desperate, but when a woman knows she’s got your interest already it raises her value and power.

Okay, so you know you SHOULDN’T spend a lot of money on a girl or desperately pursue her to win her affection…

So how do you attract a girl to you and have her chase you?

Be a challenge

One of the best ways to make women or girls chase you is to be a challenge.

What this mean is that, instead of calling a girl all the time and being too available… acting apologetic in order not to offend a girl… buying things for a girl to please her… and doing all the wimpish things in the hopes that a girl likes you… DO THE OPPOSITE.

Don’t be a hopeless romantic or show too much interest. Instead, strive to exhibit attractive MANLY mannerisms and behaviors to pull her to you.

In simple words, make girls chase you by virtue of your attractive personality. That is, make her have fun around you, including mini-dating with her. Have emotional relevant conversations with her. Be funny and make her laugh, demonstrate confidence and dominance, etc…

… but DO NOT desperately pursue her like most guys.

Stand out in an attractive way

You see, attractive women or pretty girls are used to having guys desperately pursuing them. But if you are indifferent to a woman, you give her the impression that you’re the prize and hence, YOU ARE the one worth pursuing.

This makes you valuable and fulfilling to her.

But understand this: You don’t want to act too much DISINTERESTED. Because when there’s no interest on your part, the woman won’t feel the need to chase you.

So what I recommend is to express your desire. Let her know you find her attractive, and you’re not afraid to make a move. Here, you will mini-date with her, flirt with her, give her some attention, etc.

But don’t DESPERATELY pursue her.

SUBTLY show interest, but leave her guessing and wondering whether you’re interested in her or not.

Convey to her you have options, and you can walk away any time. Especially when she’s acting b!tchy or plays hard to get.

That’s when the CHASE begins.

If you successfully create attraction and you act as if you’re not interested in her, she will be obsessed over you and will be intent on getting you. Because, not only …

5 Major Things That Attract Eastern European Women

Musing about what attracts Eastern European women, let's not forget that all ladies are fascinated by different things. What one female loves could be what another girl loathes? Personal taste remains high on the agenda when discussing ladies' taste in guys.

But in general, there are certain things that Eastern European women, girls admire in men. If they were raised in a post-Soviet Union country such as Russia, Ukraine, or Belarus, pretty ladies positively react to such traits.

Brought up in rather patriarchal societies, females from these locations are more inclined to follow major trends approved by customs as compared to their western counterparts. They also tend to look for each other's approval, which means how you are viewed by a girl's family and friends strongly affects her own verdict. You have to impress not only your sweetheart but also her circle of close acquaintances.

5 things that Eastern European women admire

1. The ability to keep one's word. People of all nationalities find this trait attractive but it is even more important for residents of the former USSR. The unstable situation in these countries makes them appreciate reliability and stability in guys more.

2. Clean and fashionable appearance. Men dating with Eastern European women would be wise to dress up a notch. If you normally dress casually, upgrade it to a "smart casual" attire. Think city girls from a posh area in downtown. Russian and Ukrainian women love the style, nice clothes, and elegance.

3. Readiness to wait for intimacy. Dating without immediate attempts to move to the bedroom can melt hearts of girls from Eastern Europe. In their culture men are expected to constantly push for closeness, and women should continually resist. It is quite exhausting. When you act as if you are simply enjoying her company, she might start wondering if you are even interested in her this way. It's much easier to wait out than to fight your way through. You also earn her respect for being considerate.

4. Being a leader. Asking an Eastern European woman about her opinions all the time will get you nowhere. Rather make decisions yourself and offer options, she is happy to follow. Do not hesitate to take initiative as women there are taught to hide their interest and put on the appearance of indifference. If she doesn't expressly request you to leave, she is excited about being approached. Don't be fooled by her rather passive actions; she may be jumping for joy on the inside!

5. Generosity. If you want to cut corners and make a girl fall in love with you quickly, being generous would allow you to skip multiple steps. Bunches of flowers and chocolates might seem trivial (of course, she could afford to buy these items herself) but getting them from an admirer is an entirely different thing. Little presents like perfumes or unique jewellery not only lovely to receive as gifts but also unconsciously keep you in the lady's thoughts as she is making use …

What Qualities in Guys Attract Women?

In the time where dating is quite prominent and love is celebrated every day, men have a fair chance of finding their true love with women of all shapes, sizes, and personalities. However, when it comes to women selecting their soul mates, things get difficult because it is an emotional affair. The women population can get very choosy while opting for the opposite sex that is actually worthy of attracting.

This article comes as a ray of hope for guys who are patiently waiting to be chosen by the right women. It talks about the qualities in men that women find quite attractive.

1. Groomed personality
The very first thing that catches a woman's attention is a smartly dressed male who knows what suits him. Starting from the proper hair cut to the clean face, right fitted clothes, clean personality and a good pair of shoes. You must have heard that the first impression is the last one. Well, it is not the last but it definitely helps in building the character in her eyes. Being the first step towards attracting women, you need to take good care of yourself because if you can't do it, why would someone else do it for you.

2. Improve the listening skills
Every woman loves to talk and all she needs is someone who can hear her out to the fullest. You might not be a good listener but you have to be one if you really want a woman to pay attention to you. All she wants is that you listen to her problems, her daily schedule, and everything else as well. However, this is what happens when you are already in the relationship with her. Initially, you just have to stay calm and listen out the chit chat she intends to do with you. This is the probably the easiest way to a woman's affection.

3. Be kind and act as one
You must have heard the idiom, practice what you preach. This aspect is somewhat like that. You need to be kind at heart in order to gain the affection of the woman. However, being kind at heart and not practicing it in the outside world is of no use. You talk about being kind to others but do not practice it yourself, you might lose the girl of your life. Take things gently but remember to not be fake at any point in life. Let her see the real you who is kind at heart and also believes in doing good for the others.

4. Make sure your body is in sync with your lips
Body language is what this aspect talks about. Whenever you are communicating with a female, it is very important the body language is in sync with the words that come out of your mouth. Women have the ability to judge men really well and when it comes to love or dating, they do it exceptionally well. Remember that the slow and steady wins the …