Parents Model Human Interaction!

I just had a great time bringing my five children to the dentist. It was a great time because multiple people complimented my children on their good behavior, and I had a great conversation with a complete stranger.

In this day and age of the Internet where everyone is always connected, wouldn't you agree that our children are missing out on some important stuff that we used to all just take for granted, like talking to people without electronics being involved?

The kids all did a great job at the dentist, and when we got safely back in the car for the ride home, my kids asked me why I was speaking to strangers again. I giggled because they thought it was weird that I would talk to someone I didn't already know. Furthermore, they also thought it was strange that I so easily participated in a conversation with a complete stranger that lasted over an hour.

I looked at my kids, in bemusement not fully understanding what was so odd about me talking to other people. To tell you the truth, I think it would be to humanity's benefit to once in a while put down our electronics or whatever else it is that is keeping us so busy, and take time to notice and converse with one another. There really are no strangers out there; just people who we haven't met yet.

I have to be honest with you though. Believe it or not, I too, at least initially, had my face buried in something at the dentist office, also. I was working on my next book and was not looking to talk to anyone. However, he said, "Hello" and the delightful conversation just took off from there.

Now, as my Granddaddy always said, "Go learn, lead, and lay the way to a better world for all of us. Parents, don't be afraid to be a bit old fashion and show your kids how the whole human interaction thing It is done. And once again parents, thanks in advance for all that you do, and all that you will do …

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Celebrating the African Woman: A Multi-Functional Human Species

Women are intelligent creatures tasked with the heavenly duty of serving as a complement to men. However, due to their distinctive being, many women have performed excellently and gone beyond the boundaries of their heavenly assigned tasks. Countless women around the globe are multifunctional human species, playing a dual role of manly and womanly duties with exceptional successes. The list of such women includes but not limited to these, Mother Theresa, Florence Nightingale, Millicent Fawcett, Emmeline Pankhurst, Marie Curie, Emily Wilding Davison, Rosa Parks, Maya Angelou, Gloria Steinem, Margaret Thatcher, Oprah Winfrey, Emma Watson, Malala Yousafzai, Clara Barton, Edith Wharton, Dorothy Levitt, Funmilayo Ransome Kuti, Yaa Asantewaa, Winnie Mandela, Margaret Ekpo, Miriam Makeba, Queen Nkinga, and Ruth Williams. In modern Africa, women toil and have positioned their feet firmly in all areas of development. They have shown that they merit great recognition as at par with their male counterparts. Today, it is empirically unarguable that gender equality is less disputed because women in the past and more so, presently, have shown by their remarkable leadership and workable skills that indeed the slogan is true that what a man can do, a woman can do and probably can even do better.

Unfortunately, in many parts of Africa, due to the age-long dark mentality that women must be confined to the domestic home, the rights of women are still trampled upon. The old tripartite systems of customary, traditional and religious viewpoints that undermine the liberty of women to explore their potentials to bolster Africa's development make it difficult to erase completely, various discriminatory practices toward them. The inequality against women in terms of education and in participating in key decision-making areas of development is a haunting plague to the African continent. Estimates indicate that three years after the 2015 target of the second millennium development goals of attaining universal education, female enrolment in primary education still trail at 67%. It is distressing that arranged and forced marriages of young girls still prevail in many local communities in Africa. Due to poverty, many of these feeble young girls are exchanged for money in these untimely and coerced marital unions. African governments must put in great efforts to establish and enforce all legislation against child marriages and all forms of inhumane and degrading treatments against women! Human rights activists and agencies must intensify their efforts in sounding the sensitization and awareness campaign for equal rights for women. Massive education must be pursued by the ministries of gender, women and children affairs as well as civic rights ministries and agencies to enlighten parents, especially illiterate parents on the need to change their wrong perceptions regarding girl-child education.

While the feminism theory is being put into reality today in many societies globally, Africa is still wallowing in darkness regarding the need to enhance women participation in key areas of development. Granted, there have been many giant efforts in this regard as some women have gone against all odds to rub shoulders with their male counterparts in …